We (Shayla and I) came down to the outdoor food court here on S. Congress (at Milton) today to give Shayla some face time with one of her little girlfriends by the name of Bernadette. Bernadette is 3 1/2 and Shayla just turned 4 so they're perfect for each other. They're fun to watch. They go through everything: from fun and harmony to conflict resolution. The latter of the two, they invariably need assistance with at this age. They teach volumes just through simple observation. Amazing. Fun for them and educational for me.
I must say here that this has been a long time coming. Up to now, we have just lucked out in that she hasn't taken to the shadier side of our vernacular. Those days have now passed. A word, as well must be said to the fact that her mother and I do not have 'Sailor's mouths' when it comes to expressing ourselves. Yet, apparently our lips don't always have a 'G' rating. PG-13 will not do when your youngster is four. Point taken. I think we have a fair chance of success in our un-conditioning and going forward as our little one is a very intelligent little person.
All the same, it stung a little to explain to her that that was an 'adult' word and not to be uttered by a kid in a kids world: yet another example of a sense of hypocrisy from a child's point of view. Although it's right and true, I can see how, to them, it wouldn't make a lot of sense. I have a sense of sympathy for those feelings; I remember them.